Affirm for a better you, them & relationship

"I can live for a month on a good compliment." -Will Rogers 

A quick post on a golden nugget that has been told to me by multiple people in 2016 and I have found to dramaticly be effective:

Affirming improves us, other people and relationships. 

​As women motivate their man in positive ways, men are energized to love them better. When men affirm their lady, she is brightens up. Men need respect in order to love, women need love in order to respect" from the book "Love and Respect" by Dr Emerson Eggerichs. 
If your marriage or any other relationship could use some hope, try affirming. Write yourself reminder notes, set reminders on your phone--whatever it takes! We need reminders because this typically isn't the norm for most people. It doesn’t matter if the relationship is good or seems like there is no hope--affirming helps! After all, who doesn't want to be loved and appreciated?